Life is beautiful and so is every individual but it takes a lot to understand this thing. Most of us know this thing but not all of us really believe this seriously. God creates everybody in a unique way, no two individuals are same and that is exactly your power.
Life has its own ways of teaching you different things. It will bump you into people and drop you into the scenarios that will break you. Understand that such a breakdown is meant to rebuild you, rebuild a stronger you. Grow out of it.
All that glitters isn’t gold. The same way, all those individuals showing concern aren’t your well wishers. To such individuals, I would say, “A genuine smile is better than your those fake hugs.”
Next thing that now strikes in my mind, is who really were you, before the emotional devastation caused by such an attachment? You might be your happy place prior to shifting to that individual? Or May be you were your best company?
Isn’t this true? Isn’t this something that we all know, but still drowns in those sugar-coated conversations of people. Why do we really suffocate our lives in the first place by making somebody else a priority in our life. Its our life, and once and for all we must be our heroes.
Okay, fine, somewhere, we might crib that we need somebody to survive. To this, I would say, if we really needed somebody else to be happy in life, hasn’t God been attaching people mentally, physically, and emotionally since birth?
Think about it? Its not always about what you say. Its what’s going on inside your mind, that shakes you completely from within and leaves you lifeless.
Ah, so what can be done? There are so many things we can do to save ourselves from such a pain and devastation. But, we fail to do that, why because we often think of temporary happiness and end up in long lasting pain.
So, in the nutshell, look in the mirror, right into your eyes and say yourself loudly the below mentioned things to free yourself from suffering:
- I love you.
- I matter to me and my family.
- I can and I will.
- I won’t give up on myself ever.
- I will always be there for myself.
- I will always give Happiness and Life a try.
- I will never forget to pick myself up.
So, its your life, don’t spend it on people who talk to you with an intention and purpose in mind. Instead, invest in yourself in all ways to have no regrets ever.
Its easy, tell yourself now, and trust me something will change in you right away.